Tips from the Queen of Rejection®

Category: Deflections

The Art of Dealing Out Distractions, Deflections, Evasions, Blaming and Shaming

Mar 31, 2018

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Elayne Savage, PhD

Trying to understand the flurry of Distraction and Blaming? Look to childhood roles in the family – especially the Distracter and Blamer.
Overly Sensitive? Thin Skin? Tips for Protecting Yourself

Mar 31, 2017

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Elayne Savage, PhD

Being overly sensitive and having thin skin often results in blaming others, puffing ourselves up by bulling and lashing out.
I Really Hate Being Lied To!

Jan 31, 2017

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Elayne Savage, PhD

I really hate being gaslighted and lied to and recent events in Washington are reminding me of all the lies I endured in childhood.
Tangling with Safeway Stores – An Alternate Reality

Apr 29, 2014

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Elayne Savage, PhD

Sometimes someone says or does something that triggers old experiences. This time for me it was crazy-making communication by the Safeway Stores Claims Manager – full of denials, deflections, and evasions.